“Is there something wrong with me? Is my communication with others mean? Why can I never be what they want?”
Yes this is what I frequently ask myself every-time I fall out ‘practically’ with everybody around me, you might be asking yourself ‘how? you seem like a pleasant person’ . It Isn’t always like that…. I am very direct and straight forward when I speak and often people misinterprets or don’t agree with what i say, and because of that I tend to not talk just to avoid hurting others, But sometimes I speak my mind and its not what others expect, I believe in being yourself all the time, even when people call you selfish or don’t agree with your ways of living or seeing the world. Sometimes just expressing that you feel hurt, judged, rejected, or inferior to someone who is making you feel that way is enough to make them take not of their behaviour.
Most people just aren’t prepared for that level of honesty and openness. Its hard to talk about, or even acknowledge emotions sometimes, in other hand, you also have to be receptive to criticism.
You don’t have any obligation to be what other people want you to be, and more importantly you CAN’T always be what they want, whether you want to or not. You are a unique person and can’t help with other people project onto you.
All I have learnt from personal experience is that you will never be what everyone want because you are special to fit in their regular boring mould you are amazing in your own way. and what people say about you doesn’t say anything about you its a reflection of them
And darling there nothing wrong with you! when it comes to communication with others there’s always room for improvement but that doesn’t mean theres something wrong with you!
“until next time, keep it real my lovelies”